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Words stick with us—some more than others. Research shows that people remember criticism and negativity for as long as 20 years. Compliments and praise on the other hand? 30 days.
Words have lasting power in shaping how kids see the world, themselves, and God. Your kids are hearing all kinds of words from all kinds of people every day. But not all messages are helpful, kind, or encouraging. That’s why your words as a parent are so powerful and formative for your kids.
Ephesians 4:29 reminds us to speak words that build others up—and that includes your kids. Of course, you want to speak in a life-giving way to your kids. But it’s all too easy to allow worn patience, sleep deprivation, or your own personal baggage to color the words you use around them.
As parents, we need to intentionally choose to speak encouragement, affirmation, and God’s truth over our kids. Your words can make or break what your kids grow up to understand about themselves, their relationship with you, and their relationship with Jesus.
You won’t always get it right—but with God’s help, you can be a voice of truth and empowerment to your kids.
Today's Tip: Challenge yourself today: the next time a compliment or encouragement pops into your head, say it. (And not just to your kids! If you notice something about your spouse, a coworker, or even a perfect stranger, take a moment to tell them.)